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NEVER ENDING STORY

1/21/2014

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"See I'm on this trip that never stops, just goes and goes and goes
Keep looking for the finishing line, must be further up I 'spose
I meditate to keep me calm, take one STEP at a time
So hard to keep on focusing on this lonely trip of mine

It's been so long now, so far back, I've forgotten when it started
And how I made it this far it's quite amazing I 'ain't departed
Was it all a dream, some delusion, maybe a phantom put to rest
The demons keep reminding me, "give up" they say "it cannot manifest"

The vultures keep on circling way above my tortured soul
The doubt creeps in I wonder if it's time to dig that hole
But deep inside my ME keeps smiling knowing I won't break
Because I've learned the lessons failure gifted with heartache

And so my quest continues forward until I cross that line
Accompanied by the evil demons who crave this soul of mine
They sit there on my shoulder screaming fear into my ear
My Angel knocks them off their perch only sweet lullabies I hear

See the Angels are my vision of faith, the reality wrapped up in dreams
They talk to me along the way, their impenetrable armour protecting me it seems
For now I understand that as I near that finishing line abound with all it's glory
It is simply one of many Journeys in life's never ending story"

-    TriggerDot
        aka Brendan Lauritz
PictureTennis legend. Greater man.
Once your inner me, or your Upper Case ME as I prefer to call it, makes you conscious of every STEP you take, every move you make, every THOUGHT you think, every emotion you feel, then your real world begins to take shape. Your REAL LIFE begins, not the one most of us end up living.
There are some ads being shown during the Australian Open Tennis featuring Andre Agassi where he talks about 'stuff' that has 'shaped' his growth in tennis and life. You only have to listen to the way he talks to see that he is very Spiritual. He appreciates his GIFTS in life and of course life itself. He talks about the Journey in getting to No. 1 in his field. He talks about attitude and having the right mindset. And he talks about the three most influential people in his life, his Dad growing up, his life coach and best friend, and his wife Steffi Graf, who also happens to be one of the greatest women tennis players of all time. And yet when he talks about Steffi tennis is not mentioned, even though it was what made them famous. Andre talks about Steffi teaching him about life in a way he believes is better than any Philosopher could teach because she LIVES what she believes in. She practices what made her so successful in every thing she does every minute, every day. They talk about what happiness means to them. Not the unbelievable number of tennis Grand Slam trophies they share, but the happiness they bring to each other through their life values, morals and faith. See they are in love with each other and in love with the life gifted to each of them. Their spirituality, their love (the same!) defines their existence. They never stop searching for meaning. Hmmm, pretty interesting huh?

PictureLife begins. Soooooo cuuute!
Now this isn't about me being anything like Andre. Probably our one common trait is our gender! But one thing I now share with Steffi and Andre is that I continue to learn, I continue to evolve. I accept that the Journey I am on is not just about coming back from disaster but it is a PART of my whole life Journey. There are, and will continue to be, many obstacles in my Journey from Miser-ee to Destin-ee to Happy-Me. The brick walls. I have set the bar so high because of my belief in myself so it has made my Journey longer ..... and harder. But that's Ok because I have ACCEPTED the challenge. Professionally I no longer work in the Corporate world. I have completely redefined myself. Who I am. Where I want to be. Such dramatic change brings a lot of brick walls with it. But if you can accept the CHANGE, and have the self-belief and the right reasons for the change then it MUST happen. Not hope. MUST happen. I have spoken so often to you about MINDset, consciousness. I have talked also about love, and light and eternity. Life stuff. REAL life stuff. Well, I've also learned another thing that Andre and Steffi know. You won't get one without the other. And when you cross that finishing line, which isn't far away for me, another Journey will begin within the one life Journey. It isn't about money, or tennis trophies........

PictureOne of the ones I was talkin' about!
My life lessons continue. I grow. The demons are still there yelling the fear in my ear, bless there little black souls! Trying to inflict a bit of self doubt. I mean going from Management and Marketing, Banking and Financial Planning to writing, books, websites, BLOG thingies, poetry, song writing, and musical production with no previous experience is a bit "out there" I guess. Well maybe a bit more than a bit. Hmmm..... Maybe a violin and piano short of a full orchestra. Possibly even totally NUTS! But that's what makes it soooooo, aarrgghhmm ..... challenging. I know I have the faith, the belief in myself. The belief in God. And I have learned a lot about life like a happy little philosopher. But the funny thing is that every STEP I take I'm getting closer to that line through the life lessons. And it's what makes the Journey so interesting if y'all hang around. Because when I get to the finishing line and you can see what I have done there is one great moral to this story. If I can do it everybody can do it. In the meantime can someone help me get over this brick wall. I'm sure it's as high as Heaven ..........

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REMEMBERING ME

1/6/2014

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REMEMBERING ME
"Sometimes it's hard to look back when
the darkest days made life so bad, but then
I know that it makes me who I am today
To think, and learn life's lessons this way

I shiver and shake as I recount every mistake
Oh how stupid I was, the sole blame for my fate
But why cast my MIND back, inflict a whole lot more pain
In the pit of adversity I cry, the scars of battle remain

Why do I return to the ghettos of a tortured MIND
when it just makes me feel sick to make disaster rewind
There can be no comfort in the analysis of a suffering soul
So why do I do it, going back in TIME where I have no control

I lay on my bed gazing aimlessly into the ceiling of life
Anguish taking a hold of my banished visions, the cut of the knife
The eyes of horror stare up into the pictures of misery I see
A glutton for punishment in search of the tragedy in ME

I try to move forward but the past ashes they smoulder
STEP forward so slowly as I look back over my shoulder
This pointless exercise in masochism no help in repair
Why look back into darkness, the pain and despair

But then I saw something beyond the black past of my stare
The lesson to call out for help "Dear Mister Someone Out-There"
'Twas then I knew there was reason to revisit the pain I could see
The complete package of life includes REMEMBERING ME"

-    TriggerDot
-    aka Brendan Lauritz
    Copyright 06/01/2014 (it's sloppy to copy!)
PictureLooking into her FUTURE PAST? Hmmm.... maybe
I have often chatted to you about the past. Because it is behind us and not in front of us we have no control over it at all. What's done is done. History. We can't 'turn back time' even with Cher sitting on the top of a cannon. We have absolutely no control over what is finished. But the past does have a huuuuge impact on our lives. Our past can shape our future if we are prepared to let it.
 Our lives are finite. There is a beginning and an end. In terms of TIME, an average of 80 years, or around 30,000 days, should see us go underground. The first bit is spent learning as a toddler, then a child and later a teenager. We get a lot of help during this time from parents and teachers. Our past at this point shouldn't knock us around too much but by the time of 20/21 years old we should have a pretty solid foundation for what will be (Que Sera Sera!). But then the big "R" word comes into play for the next 'rest of life'. Responsibility. And it's where the big mistakes happen. Marriage, jobs, kids, mortgages, debt and other big people stuff create havoc as we journey forward. It was OK when we were just out of school but then we start living. And partying. And falling in and out of love. And getting greedy. We make mistakes. Sometimes we FAIL. Yikes! I hate that F word.....
Then we move into our 30s then into our 40s. Oh Oh. The top of the Bell curve. Double Yikes! We start moving downwards. All of a sudden we have more PAST than FUTURE. Hmmmm....... Never thought that would happen. And guess what? Many of us BLOW IT. The failure and the mistakes jump on our backs as we slowly descend, making it harder to enjoy what's left of our future. Riding bareback into oblivion. Grassed by the past. During this 'living' period we probably cop a tragedy or two,  a good dose of hardship, some excruciating losses in the form of family, friends, and money and a whole lotta insurmountable grief. Probably going to get a lot worse as we accumulate more PAST and chew into our not so rosey FUTURE. Hmmmm this story is too depressing. Let's try it from another angle. Let's try the proof in the pudding. A shining example of a FUTURE PAST......... MOI

PictureRemember ME?
TIME helps to lessen the pain but the scars remain as I pointedly scribe in my little ditty above. The hurt inflicted immediately after a tragedy is the worst. The immediate PAST is all consuming sometimes to the point of not wanting a FUTURE. But then the pain diminishes ever so slowly as we live each day forward. The days move into weeks, then months and years. It gets better. But during this hurtful time we keep eating into our future and replacing it with more past. We don't get any credits added to the end.
So get over it? Nup. Uh Uh. That's unfair. Sometimes the hurt will live with us forever. Scars are scars. A blemish on purity.
What then?
                                                           
                                                             ......USE THE HURT......
                                Don't surrender. Just REMEMBER.....
When I first became homeless I was lost. Very. My new world was unfamiliar. And dangerous. The fear was deep set within me. The beginning of the pain is always the worst. As I became more familiar and worked out 'the system' I sought help through books and meditation, prayer and other community support, such as the solace of the wonderful voluntary workers at homeless shelters. As time went on the pain eased ever so slowly as I became a permanent part of the homeless world. I learned to move forward into the FUTURE which was all that I could control. I didn't want to look over my shoulder at the damaged goods like the horror of my first soup kitchen, not knowing what lay ahead. Or the times I was bashed and threatened by very dangerous out of control drug addicts and alcoholics. Or seeing the bodies of those who couldn't take it anymore. Or the sound of silence as I realised my homeless dilemma. Or the feel of death during the cyclone. Or..... well there were many, many fearful moments over more than five years. The memories were not times to look back on. The fear was only a peek over my shoulder away. I had to keep going......

PictureRemembering over her shoulder?
But then things began to change. I gave myself over to the FUTURE. I started to BELIEVE that I had a FUTURE. And so I kept moving forward a STEP at a time into that FUTURE. I gave no thought to the way I was living. Each day bought new challenges. No looking back. I learned NOT to confront the demons of my PAST so I just didn't look behind. I started to write. Synchronicity was teaching me new tricks, giving me a path to follow, consolidating my BELIEF in myself. But I continued to gain knowledge through books and meditation. One of the startling revelations I found was that I should confront my demons of the past. But not only confront the horrific times but THINK INTO THEM. REMEMBER THEM. Remember how I was sick with fear, and I mean sick. Remember how embarrassed I was. How reclusive I had become. What would people think?  Remember every sickening moment that embedded itself in my MIND. Remember every little detail of the causes that inflicted the pain.
My Journey continues. I confront those bad times quite often. I don't like to confront those demons but the very THOUGHT of how I felt during those times....... A greater source of strength ..... no, hold on. A greater source of POWER you will not find. I am no longer scared to look over my shoulder into my past. I can do it. And when I do I can SMILE because I know that my new ME, my Upper Case ME wants me to move into my FUTURE with certainty by REMEMBERING ME........

                                                                    

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