"I no longer scramble blindly through hardship. I no longer emerge from a bad time feeling relieved just to have survived. Instead of despairing, I try to find the lesson within the experience"
- Halle Berry, actress
"Lying and cheating are sins. A hot fudge sundae is not" (heee heee heee, fuuunee!)
- Tish Durkin, journalist
"I don't have to be perfect. All I have to do is show up and enjoy the messy, imperfect, and beautiful journey of my life. It's a trip more wonderful than I could have imagined" - Kerry Washington, actress
...... EXPERIENCE....... When you are AWARE of the hidden dangers surrounding you, ready to infiltrate your very BEING, you become tougher by reason of sanity. When you FEEL that everything is getting on top of you and that you can't go on anymore, then be thankful for those THOUGHTS because they are making you AWARE. Strangely enough it is those very NEGATIVE THOUGHTS that are preventing everything from getting to you. It makes sense when you think about it. If you didn't have those negative thoughts you wouldn't NEED to be AWARE. Just read those three quotes above. They are all short accounts of obstacles causing negativity with TRIUMPH at the end. Mmmmm Hmmmmm........
Take the case of MOI, ME, MYSELF and I. Like I said at the end of the last BLOG thingie about the message to the NEGOBS "YOU LOSE". And they did lose. They have LOST. And the reason for that is because I am aware. Things haven't got much better. Indeed I have a few extra problems than when I was bitter and sad. But that's OK. I welcome those OBSTACLES into my life because I know how to deal with the NEGATIVITY of the problems. I welcome the EXPERIENCES that the NEGOBS give me. It's no great big strategy. Nothing hard to learn. It is very, very simple in fact.
BE AWARE ........
Take the case of MOI, ME, MYSELF and I. Like I said at the end of the last BLOG thingie about the message to the NEGOBS "YOU LOSE". And they did lose. They have LOST. And the reason for that is because I am aware. Things haven't got much better. Indeed I have a few extra problems than when I was bitter and sad. But that's OK. I welcome those OBSTACLES into my life because I know how to deal with the NEGATIVITY of the problems. I welcome the EXPERIENCES that the NEGOBS give me. It's no great big strategy. Nothing hard to learn. It is very, very simple in fact.
BE AWARE ........
...... THINK ...... Heartbreak is a terrible pain. A pain in the heart. It's one of the worst. I know. I have suffered it many times. The same with LOSS. If you lose your life long partner, the pain will be unbearable for many. If you lose material possessions like your home, car, business, life savings, then you will suffer in Devil's Dip. The hurt will be great. If you have a terminal disease, the mental anguish will be as hard, if not harder than the disease. It's when you NEED to call on the resilience of your MIND. It's the realization of the BIG PICTURE. It's the time to THINK. It's the TIME you will question your existence. The meaning. The purpose of your LIFE........
IT IS WHEN YOU BECOME AWARE OF YOU .........
IT IS WHEN YOU BECOME AWARE OF YOU .........
....... CHOOSE ...... And it is THE GREATEST learning EXPERIENCE of your life because you will begin to understand that your life, every single DOT life, is limited. You will probably remember the figures, 3 billion heartbeats, two and a half billion seconds, 800 million breaths, 80 years. NOT LONG. You think it's forever when you are 20. Having too much fun at 40. Beginning to THINK at 50. Beginning to shake at 60. Getting scaaaaaad as, at 70. And 80..... Oh Oh ...... deaded, deaded, deaded......
Now you might not be enjoying my BLOG thingie tooooo much today, but NOW is the TIME to THINK. It simply does not matter one little bit what end of the age scale above you are. Just be AWARE of what I am telling you. Live your life according to what I am telling you.
If you are hurting like me at the moment then I really feel for you because it's a YUKKY way to feel, huh? But whatever is eating into your psyche right now, whatever obstacle you are dealing with, whatever negativity you are fighting...... then do this.....
Go to, or stay in, Devil's Dip. Depending on the Degree Of Devastation it is probably the best place for you right now. Alone, reclusive, sad, depressed ......... and the rest. Shake, rattle and roll as much as you can. Let the tears run freely if needs be. And then concentrate as hard as you can on the REASON FOR THE PAIN. That will make you feel as baaaad as you can possibly feel. It's your rock bottom. But you can't go any further south. It is the belly of the serpent snake........
NOW........
You just proved that you can still THINK because you were able to THINK the very worst under unbelievable pressure.
Good. Your MIND is working. The THOUGHTS are being shot in your direction. Some will hurt like hell if you CHOOSE THEM. And then some will come to help you using the EXPERIENCE of the pain you have already suffered. So........
The CHOICE is yours. THINK about all of the good stuff I have told you or THINK of all the bad stuff and be as miserable as you can be in Miser-ee.
Right now I am hurting. But not as much as I was before I started THINKING. Now my THOUGHTS from previous EXPERIENCES are lessening the pain I could be feeling. So.......
Now you might not be enjoying my BLOG thingie tooooo much today, but NOW is the TIME to THINK. It simply does not matter one little bit what end of the age scale above you are. Just be AWARE of what I am telling you. Live your life according to what I am telling you.
If you are hurting like me at the moment then I really feel for you because it's a YUKKY way to feel, huh? But whatever is eating into your psyche right now, whatever obstacle you are dealing with, whatever negativity you are fighting...... then do this.....
Go to, or stay in, Devil's Dip. Depending on the Degree Of Devastation it is probably the best place for you right now. Alone, reclusive, sad, depressed ......... and the rest. Shake, rattle and roll as much as you can. Let the tears run freely if needs be. And then concentrate as hard as you can on the REASON FOR THE PAIN. That will make you feel as baaaad as you can possibly feel. It's your rock bottom. But you can't go any further south. It is the belly of the serpent snake........
NOW........
You just proved that you can still THINK because you were able to THINK the very worst under unbelievable pressure.
Good. Your MIND is working. The THOUGHTS are being shot in your direction. Some will hurt like hell if you CHOOSE THEM. And then some will come to help you using the EXPERIENCE of the pain you have already suffered. So........
The CHOICE is yours. THINK about all of the good stuff I have told you or THINK of all the bad stuff and be as miserable as you can be in Miser-ee.
Right now I am hurting. But not as much as I was before I started THINKING. Now my THOUGHTS from previous EXPERIENCES are lessening the pain I could be feeling. So.......
EXPERIENCE
THINK
CHOOSE
then do what Michael Jackson sang about.....
JUST BEAT IT !!!!!
THINK
CHOOSE
then do what Michael Jackson sang about.....
JUST BEAT IT !!!!!
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