"Dreams are life's way of showing us what our destiny is"
- Melody Beattie, 'The Grief Club
If you haven't read the book NEGOBS stands for Negativity through Obstacles. The Obstacle is the event that causes loss and grief in your life such as losing a loved one, or the house and business. But the Obstacles are usually a brief tragic moment in time. For it is the Negativity resulting from the Obstacle that causes all of the damage. If we do not have the necessary defence forces to counter attack the negativity then the NEGOBS become life threatening, or worse, life destructive.
So as much as Christmas can be a wonderful happy time, particularly where the little ones are involved, spend a thought for the under privileged and the homeless, the sick and aged. For the festive season can bring back unwanted memories which can be very very dangerous. Be aware that the NEGOBS will go after the weakest and the vulnerable, and on many occasions will bring them down.
I live amongst the prey that the NEGOBS go after. In fact I am one of them. This week they have been trying to infiltrate my armour. It isn't a nice time but fortunately my journey has prepared me for all they can throw at me. With me the NEGOBS cannot win, but they have a great time trying, still believing they will bring me undone. It can't and won't happen.
Some past, some memories at this time of the year are beautiful, priceless, divine even. But it's not where the NEGOBS hangout. They know the fears. They know the scars.
So if it's not a good time for the past, read this blog again. Be strong, like ME. We are all one which means I am with you. And I will help you fight the NEGOBS of the past. Be aware. Be strong. Be together with me in consciousness. If you are vulnerable, like me, the NEGOBS will have a crack, like they are with me. Smile and think of this blog. Don't let them drag you down. Defeat them, like ME!